Originally Posted by
Bluebulldog
"I do this", "I do the sit and stay", "I can walk around the house".....
The OP doesn't have a problem with him, it's his family.
You disagree with others advice, and then are insulting and call it scary? Nice. Dogs, contrary to your opinion on other posts are pack animals, they need to fit into a hierarchy. Some breeds do very well with positive reinforcement, some do not. Ever trained a Chesapeke Bay Retriever?
Positive reinforcement is always the best training tool, however in the event that a dog begins to test out where is sits on the ladder, often with behavioral issues being attached there needs to be a definite behavior correction, you cannot simply positively reinforce whenever the dog does what mom, or daughter commands. This doesn't have to be an e-collar ( In fact I've trained some harder breeds, using one sparingly, but don't own one anymore). It can often be a more minor behavioral correction.