Originally Posted by
MikePal
I was having this discussion with a Buddy the other night. He's having a hard time making ends meat. His only saving grace is that he lives rural and the cost of living is cheaper. He only has a 10 minute drive to work, his kids will be going to school about 10 minutes away and the town has all the amenities. The sacrifice is the job doesn't pay as much as it would if he was working in the big city. Almost a $5/hr difference.
But as we discussed it, it was clear that the $5 extra would get eaten up pretty quick when you have to drive 45 minutes, pay for parking etc. My wife used to work in the city and it was 130Km round trip commute that cost her 2 hrs a day in time and well over a tank of gas a week plus $12 a day in parking.
Personally I'd rather mix paint at the local hardware store for a little less income, than sit in a cubicle in an office tower in the city. At the end of the month you will have pretty much the same disposable income in your pocket and more time with your kids. Most guys I think would prefer to be with them after school than spending that the same time commuting home from the office.
edit add: He's finding adjusting to a single income hard as they just had their second child and his wife is going to stay home.