The sad part is even though you've done nothing wrong, I doubt your guns were handled carefully. Likely piled into the trunk of a cruiser and rattled back to the station ,carried by the armload. :(
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The sad part is even though you've done nothing wrong, I doubt your guns were handled carefully. Likely piled into the trunk of a cruiser and rattled back to the station ,carried by the armload. :(
CFO contacted my Ex, and even though is an incident record with leo, I've had no problems since. Nowhere near quite as bad as your situation, and thankfully the officer involved was himself divorced so had plenty of real world experience with different things that can happen. Smart enoug to take her phone and read her text messages to me and then giver her a slap.
That said, during our conversation the one thing he said to me and its stayed with me ever since.
Next time she tries to have you arrested, she might not get a guy like me, thats lived life. It could be some hot eager fresh out of school kid that eager to make a mark , or a female officer who may be just that wee bit more sympathetic or careful. Consider yourself a little lucky.
Fox is right, they cant afford, not to take accusations seriously and have a bad well deserved reputation. In the years since I've met a woman (two actually with stalker issues), nether have much thats good to say about leo.
Point being, while your situation is different. Hopefully it works out well, but as others have noted. CYA going forward for awhile. Im sure most divorced people (both sexes) will agree. Things tend to get worse..........before they start to get better. Mine was a nightmare, but these days things are ok.
I have the best ex-wife on the planet. After I caught her screwin' around while I was at work,then lying her a** off,I cut her a cheque (OK,a bit of an over-simplification for brevity sake),told her to go and live with her layabout boyfriend and to get out of my life and stay out. That was 32 years ago and I haven't heard from her,since. Perfect!
You my friend are one of the lucky ones.Quote:
Originally Posted by trimmer21
No secret I work at a Courthouse. One of the biggest observations I've made is this:
You want to see how evil, vindictive and stupid people can be?
Drop by the Courthouse on family court day. Where else will you see two people in their late 20s or early 30s with nothing on the balance sheet, and no assets, pay a pair of lawyers $300 per hour to argue over who gets the $300 Xbox......
No kidding....or the dog !!Quote:
Originally Posted by Bluebulldog
If they have kids talk about evil.Quote:
Originally Posted by rick_iles
Parents tend to use kids are bargaining chips, disgusting but true.
Well someone's word may not be worth much. They're sitting with my kid taking a vid statement of all the times mommy dearest smashed her in the face. Wanta bet es signature on pal don't cut as much from behind bars
That is called karma...sorry about the kid getting hit.Quote:
Originally Posted by standup
Be SURE that her cell friends know she beat her own kids... They have themselves have done a few things in a moment of poor judgement but you would be surprised how strong the "mommy" instinct can be.
Social justice can be a good thing.
Everyone said aren't you glad its over? No way over at trial end. Trials end just allowed me to get into the starting blocks. Some on here that truly know me, know that theres better things one can do than becomming my projectQuote:
Originally Posted by Snowwalker
Statistically near everything you read, will say. It takes 7 years for people to recover.
At first, as I was heading into divorce I thought they meant financially.
Now, I know, it's more than that.
My "ex".
Nice person (there are reasons we got married to begin with).
Better mom
Despite our problems and some ship, well not just some, tons and I do mean tons, which included trying to have arrested, leaving me the proverbial "Dear John letter and empty home" while I was facing cancer and potentially my ticket being punched to be with her boss...and so many other things, one of the first women I got serious with post divorce once said to me "John I need a divorce from your Ex"...needless to say in the end things took their toll and it didn't work out).
I will never ever take those things away from her. And ultimately no matter how much damage and collateral damage there is. "Everyone is allowed to be happy" and that includes her.
Things will probably get worse.
before they start getting better.
Prepare for the worst and hope for the best.