I know what you are saying but - if I was a parent of a child I would never leave the child with someone who I knew was gay - now you might say that this type of thinking is wrong but I ain't going to take chances - it is like everything else in life - if it is common for a certain breed of dog to bite people then I am going to be very careful of that breed and stay away from it - even though the particular dog in question is not vicious - or if you are a store owner and three black teenagers with hoods on come into your store you take extra precautions even though the three guys are good people - or if your going ice fishing and a couple guys fell through the ice earlier that day and you decide not to go where they fell through even though the ice is ok now - that's the way life is - it's called being careful - thinking that way will give you less grief as you do through life - believe me