Wife nuts/ guns gone

[standup]

No anyone that tries to make me bleed by lies never ever does well. Women gotta be shown this "push button seperation" 911 is NOT a fun game

[JBen]

Wish you well Stand-up.
Been there,....and then some.I can't begin to relate just a fraction of it, nor the prices I've paid, that go way beyond financial prices and I got raped, Ill work to the grave as a result. But to add it just one more thing amongst many. When she tried to pull a fast one, and it was so low, so dirty, so flat out wrong, and gain custody of the kids as well. My lawyer gave me some advice.

"John we can fight this, you will lose" Play nice. So I did and I am thankful I took his advice.

At some point your going to
understand despite whatever damage is done or whatever else....Best thing to ever happen to you.

And the sooner you can turn the page, the sooner you get on with your life.

[rick_iles]

So.........how about those Leafs !!!!

[JBen]

Stand-up, don't know your Ex from Adam.
if this is how it's starting......

I can rhyme off a good 6 friends ( Guys and Gals) for whom things......just got worse and worse. One girl I know is near bankrupt now, its been 9 years and it still hasn't settled...Talk to her today and she wishes she had just signed off on it and him years ago. As BBD and a couple others said.....At one point, I asked my lawyer to do anything, is there anything I could legally do, to get as far away as possible, keep her as far away and out of my life as possible. I was ready or getting close to the point where I was considering leaving the province or country, even though it might mean I had to leave my kids behind......One forum member here can vouch that, he tried to get me to go West and if not for my girls.....

Lol, are they really any better Rick?
Both can drive you mad.

[trimmer21]

No anyone that tries to make me bleed by lies never ever does well. Women gotta be shown this "push button seperation" 911 is NOT a fun game

It looks like you've already "won" the battles,especially,with the possibility she could end up doing time,but,if you can't cut it loose,take time to shake it off and put as much distance between you and the kids and her,she'll just keep going and going and going like the EverReady rabbit. You could end up losing the war. It's the nature of the beast. Whoever it was that said "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" sure knew what they were talking about. Remember,short term pain for long term gain no matter what it takes. Just make sure you get a signed permanent release with your settlement. Good Luck to you,StandUp.

[standup]

Actually my main issue now is the cops ignoring 6 attempts I've made with them to talk about gun return. 2 by phone 2 by writing 2 by going there. As usual they loose cause they don't do investigation before charging and as usual they go into pout after losing

[terrym]

If the cops actually return your firearms the first thing I would do is sell them all ( including signed bill of sale) to a trusted friend or relative who has a PAL until this gets settled. If she tries this again the cops can't seize what's not there. Sorry to hear about all this. A buddy of mine has been in court for 3 years and just got joint custody of his kids. Huge $$$ legal bills on both sides.

[standup]

If the cops actually return your firearms the first thing I would do is sell them all ( including signed bill of sale) to a trusted friend or relative who has a PAL until this gets settled. If she tries this again the cops can't seize what's not there. Sorry to hear about all this. A buddy of mine has been in court for 3 years and just got joint custody of his kids. Huge $$$ legal bills on both sides.

Where does IF come from

[standup]

IF you're found innocent we punish just cause we lost and we're babies?

[sawbill]

After reading all this stuff on here I just don't get it. My wife and I have been together 55 years this Sept. What the heck am I doing wrong?