Sexual Harassment And More

[JoePa]

I don't know if you guys are reading about all the sexual harassment charges that are being made by all of these women coming out of the woodwork recently - I think that it is a shame so many men do such terrible things to so many innocent women - note I said innocent - but let me say something about some of these gals - they ask for it - now before you jump all over me let me explain what I am getting at - there is this one model who claims this guy named Harvey on two different occasions raped her while they were in her apartment - Harvey is a well known movie producer - it shows pictures of her wearing hardly any clothes with a stupid look on her face that suppose to make her more sexy - when asked why she didn't report it the first time she said that she was afraid that it would ruin her career - so when you dress and act like a - guess what - some of these gals do everything they can to make themselves look sexy then when something happens they call foul -

Years ago there was a dress code that resulted in women wearing modest clothing and as a result they were treated like ladies - today it seems like the more skin you show the more stylish you are - so when some guy goes after the bait they get all bent out of shape - it's like dangling a nice big sucker in front of a musky - just thought I'd pass on some words of wisdom - cheers

[yellow dog]

Face in palms.

[Fox]

Here is a Wiki link on blaming the victim Joe, have a read.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Victim_blaming

Oh, and don't forget about Moore running for US Senate, I am sure those 14 and 15 year old girls he went after were dressing ty and asking for it too right?

[Snowwalker]

I believe what you are trying to point out Joe is the confusion that is caused by people sending and getting mixed or misunderstood signals. There is no need to talk about clothes. When a woman is comfortable with touching a man's arm simply because women in general are touchy with each other, it does not have to be any thing more then that. But when you think of ways a woman shows her interest to a man can be touching his arm, there is room for confusion.

Don't get me wrong. "NO" Should end that confusion pretty quick.

[glen]

I find it odd that so many years go by before a claim. I wouldn’t file a claim from years ago because I may not be remembering the details correctly.

[Fox]

I find it odd that so many years go by before a claim. I wouldn’t file a claim from years ago because I may not be remembering the details correctly.

It seems as though there were stirrings but since these people were highly respected those stirrings were shot down. I do not know why a woman would choose not to go forward but yet I am not a woman who has been sexually harassed and more importantly at the work place with their career on the line. If they said something they would probably be black listed and never work again, think about that in your field, you worked so hard for your career and now because you said something bad about your boss you can never work in your field again and they say you were lying.

[impact]

The entertainment industry is a joke. How many of these men and women were doing "naughty" at some point in their life. It is almost mandatory for each film to have a sex scene in it. How many are barely dressed walking down the red carpet at awards night!

So, a guy whips out his "member" for a show in a private hotel room and someone is offended and walks out the door as she should and good for her!
However, give me a break! Bunch of hypocrites.
I do not condone rape and agree that "no means no" however to ruin peoples lives by utilizing social media because someone was vexed by an event is just plain wrong especially when it happened decades ago.

[Dythbringer]

I don't know if you guys are reading about all the sexual harassment charges that are being made by all of these women coming out of the woodwork recently - I think that it is a shame so many men do such terrible things to so many innocent women - note I said innocent - but let me say something about some of these gals - they ask for it - now before you jump all over me let me explain what I am getting at - there is this one model who claims this guy named Harvey on two different occasions raped her while they were in her apartment - Harvey is a well known movie producer - it shows pictures of her wearing hardly any clothes with a stupid look on her face that suppose to make her more sexy - when asked why she didn't report it the first time she said that she was afraid that it would ruin her career - so when you dress and act like a - guess what - some of these gals do everything they can to make themselves look sexy then when something happens they call foul -

Years ago there was a dress code that resulted in women wearing modest clothing and as a result they were treated like ladies - today it seems like the more skin you show the more stylish you are - so when some guy goes after the bait they get all bent out of shape - it's like dangling a nice big sucker in front of a musky - just thought I'd pass on some words of wisdom - cheers

Stop trying to pass off your stupidity as wisdom.

[Roper]

Hollywood for the past 100 years has been running on sexuality. T&A sells. We all know that.
Women showing off their fantastic bodies is part of the job.
When I go to work, I don't have to strip naked. Don't have to kiss or have sex with anyone. In Hollywood that is basic stuff in films.
You have seen the outfits women wear in these award shows.
Point being - sexuality standards in Hollywood are much different than the standards we see and live.
Now - I know there are some sexual offences being reported that are very serious and need to be dealt with severely. NObody should ever be assaulted. But I"m also hearing some women reporting that a person grabbed my bum 10 or 20 years ago. Really? Big deal. Being a drama queen is part of the job in Hollywood and getting your name in a newspaper is a potential career boost.
Having said that, I hope entitled scumbags Weinstein (sorry about the spelling) and Spacey get what they deserve - careers destroyed.

[Snowwalker]

Stop trying to pass off your stupidity as wisdom.

Funny you should say that when you are quoting one of the guys that has been abusing women...
Could be seen as being hypocritical by some people.