Helen - Get Me A Beer

[CalTek]

In our house we both do what needs to be done to make things work - there certainly is no delegating who does what or who is supposed to do what. I help with the kids, laundry, cleaning, taking out the trash, cutting the grass, shoveling the snow, driving the kids to school, sports, etc - as does my wife. If that makes me a whimpy man in your eyes - that is fine with me. My wife works hard to provide for our family and there is no way I would expect her to take on a "traditional role" nor would I want her to. In our house she is the rock and I am not afraid to admit that at all.

Let's just agree that each relationship is different from the other, times have changed and move on.

[Roper]

Role playing - like " Im the man and therefore I am the boss" is stupid. Men and women have different personalities. Not all men are macho he-men and want to be the boss. If they are, they better marry a subserviant woman that is happy to serve her husband. I know many married men that are happy to have a woman take the lead role. It suits their collective pesonalities. Whatever works.

[standup]

Heaven help the day I need a certain roll to feel secure in who and what I am